There are two conversational opportunities in the game to start a romance with Leliana. The first opportunity is different for male and female wardens, while the second opportunity is the same regardless of gender.Once her quest is complete and her approval is close to its maximum, around 91 or more, talk to Leliana at camp to eventually begin the love scene.Thus, you can have both Alistair and Leliana with you in the end. You can also have Zevran if his approval is around 50 (both Leliana and Alistair need to be hardened before attempting this). Note: There is a way to get both Alistair and Leliana to love you without having to not talk to Alistair.
Were Leliana and Marjolaine lovers : An Orlesian bard known to most as simply a rich widow, Marjolaine trained Leliana in the subtleties of "the Grand Game," as they referred to it. Leliana will mention in conversation with the Warden, and in greater detail if Leliana is being romanced, that she and Marjolaine were also lovers during this time.
Why soften Leliana
If the player successfully softened her, she will commit to being more than what the Divine made her. If she is hardened, she will express the belief that ruthlessness gets the job done, and she is needed as the Divine made her.
Can I romance both Leliana and Morrigan : It is possible. I fully romanced Leliana, then Morrigan called me over to her tent to have sex. And then I did it with that gay elf. And then I went to the pearl and did it with a wand.
Whether she is hardened or softened will determine how she reacts to the sects that oppose her reformations to the Chantry: A hardened Leliana will murder them. A softened Leliana will negotiate with them.
To romance Leliana specifically, give her appropriate gifts to raise her friendliness, then flirt with her when the opportunity is provided. The opportunity to begin a flirtatious conversation will appear automatically once her approval is high enough.
What happens if you soften Leliana
After The Left Hand of the Divine, when the Inquisitor speaks to Leliana, she will express that she feels like a changed person. If the player successfully softened her, she will commit to being more than what the Divine made her.Leliana as Divine Victoria. One month after the defeat of Corypheus, Leliana was chosen by the College of Clerics in 9:42 to succeed Justinia as the new Divine, taking the name of Victoria. At age 36, Leliana is the second youngest Divine in history and the third to be elected outside the traditional Chantry hierarchy.Leliana's Personal Quest: The Left Hand of the Divine
When Leliana expresses that she wants to kill Sister Natalie, choose Let her go. If the player has chosen the three above options, Leliana will let her go; if not, she will ignore the Inquisitor and kill Sister Natalie anyway.
Dragon Age: Origins
Morrigan won't do it after 90+ approval. Actual, Morrigan will quite happily keep sleeping with the Warden at 100 approval. She only rejects your advances after you have completed her personal quest (giving her Flemeth's true grimoire) because she then falls in love with you.
Can you have a baby with Morrigan : Yes you have to romance Morrigan or have Alistair or Loghain do the DR. You can refuse to do the DR but if you did a romance she will apparently have a human child.
Should you stop Leliana from killing the traitor : The second time is when Leliana is talking about executing a traitor. To soften her, choose the option "Do you have to kill him" and convince her not to do it however you prefer. She'll resist the Herald at first, but eventually admit that killing the man isn't entirely necessary.
Is it better to harden Leliana or not
If you harden Leliana she'll be more accepting of some of your "evil" decisions like Alistair. If you defile the Sacred Ashes with Leliana in your party and she is unhardened she will turn on you instantly. If she is hardened you'll be able to talk her down.
If Solas was among them, he would be over 8500 years old, and would likely be older considering the power he would already have had to have accumulated by that time. The founding of Arlathan, however, is one of the earliest checkpoints in the Dragon Age timeline.To soften Leliana, you must convince her to spare the traitor and Natalie, must not tell her that soldiers are expendable, and must tell her to stop torturing herself after sparing Natalie.
Should I let Morrigan sleep with Alistair : If you have Alistair sleep with Morrigan, you don't die. If anyone sleeps with her, nobody dies, and you will always be the one to strike the finishing blow (the game doesn't give you a choice). If you don't do the ritual, somebody dies. If you have Alistair strike the final blow, he dies instead of you.